How to use your body’s language to set boundaries—even If  you feel completely disconnected from your instincts
Rebuild your self-worth and confidence—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting yourself again

You know you should block them.

You’ve told yourself a HUNDRED timesTHIS. IS. IT

No more checking their Instagram. No more reading their messages. No more wondering if they’ve changed. 

But then…

You see their name pop up on your phone.

And before you know it, you're back replying to their message—without even pausing to think about how you feel. 

And the worst part is…

You know this isn’t healthy for you. You know you risk being sucked back into their cycle again.

But it’s like you don’t know what’s real, or safe anymore.

And the thought of having to start again, meet a new partner AND trust them—when you fear it could all end in the same way again—makes you feel sick to your stomach!  

Because every time you try to set a boundary, you second-guess yourself, or you’re flooded with guilt, or anxiety.

So it just feels safer for you to stay where you are and go along with things—even if they’re hurting you.

But that’s not because you’re stupid or lack willpower…

It’s because your nervous system still doesn’t feel safe setting boundaries.

And that’s what I can help you with…

I’m Laura , a Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, and I’ve been exactly where you are now.

Which is why I created my 90-Minute Boundary Breakthrough Session.

So you can reconnect with your instincts and feel what it’s like to set a boundary, without bending, breaking, or doubting yourself.


You see… 


Boundaries aren’t just a mindset shift—they’re a nervous system shift as well.


Which is why…


Talk therapy has only helped you intellectualise your trauma—not rewired the deep survival responses that are keeping you stuck.


Books have given you insight—but your knowledge still hasn’t given you the confidence to actually hold a boundary.


Willpower has only taken you so far—because if your body still associates boundaries with fear or rejection, you’ll always default to old patterns.


So that’s why my approach is different.


Because you can’t change the way you feel by talking or thinking. 


You don’t think anxiety, grief, or fear—you feel them.


So if your body’s stuck in survival mode, no amount of intellectual understanding will stop it from reacting the same way it always has.


Which is why you need to stop looking for answers in your mind, and start working with your body instead.


That’s why in my 90-Minute Boundary Breakthrough Session, you’ll:


Develop a real, felt sense of control. So you stop tolerating things until you hit your breaking point. And instead recognise your boundaries before they’re crossed.


Learn practical, body-led techniques that work in real-time. So the next time someone pushes your boundary—whether it’s your ex, a toxic family member, or even a pushy coworker—you know exactly what to do (and you actually follow through).


Rebuild trust in yourself. So you stop second-guessing every decision, recognise your own patterns, and finally start listening when your gut tells you something isn’t right.


Experience a trauma-safe approach. We focus on what’s keeping you stuck right now and how you actually want to feel moving forward—we don't endlessly rehash the past.

Look, 


I get it. 


Because I’ve been where you are…


I know what it’s like to get a message you should ignore (the kind that sends your heartbeat racing and your stomach sinking).


But the guilt, the fear and the self-doubt—all felt much stronger than me.


Which is why for years, I just lived in survival mode:


Anxious, questioning my self-worth and wondering if maybe I was the narcissist (Spoiler: I wasn’t. And neither are you)!


So I did what most survivors do:


Talk therapy. Books. Research. Podcasts. More talk therapy.


And whilst I knew I needed boundaries, I didn’t know how they should feel.


You see…


When you go through something traumatic, like narcissistic abuse, it doesn’t just change how you think.


It changes how you feel, your nervous system, your stress responses and even your ability to feel safe.


So you can’t just focus on top down approaches, like therapy—you’ve got to tackle things from the bottom up too.


That’s when I had my “AHA” moment! And healing finally clicked for me…


I began rebuilding myself from the body up—using somatic techniques, nervous system regulation, breath-work, and movement.


And the best part?


Evidence backs this up too:


Studies show that trauma isn’t just a mind problem—it’s experienced in the body too.


And by processing it somatically—through body-based healing—it can significantly aid the recovery process [Dr. Bessel van der Kolk].


Research on somatic experiencing, also proves that body-based approaches help regulate the nervous system, reduce anxiety, and increase emotional resilience [Dr. Peter Levine].

Which traditional therapy fails to address. Hence why so many survivors often feel stuck, despite having had years of talk therapy. 


Because talking alone doesn’t change how your body reacts.


In other words:


The nervous system doesn’t respond to language cues.


That’s why you can’t tell your heartbeat to slow down!


But you can somatically. 


You can learn to regulate your stress responses in a language your body actually understands.


Which is why I became a Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach because I knew I wasn’t the only one struggling with this.


I knew other survivors were out there, trying so hard to heal but feeling like nothing was working. 


So I created this 90-Minute Boundary Breakthrough Session to show you there’s nothing wrong with you—you’ve just never been taught how to listen to your body’s wisdom.


And while one session won’t erase years of conditioning, it will give you a powerful starting point. A way to finally feel the difference between a shaky, uncertain boundary and one that stands firm.

Here’s what you get in our 90-Minute Boundary Breakthrough Session:


A felt experience of control. So you don’t just understand boundaries, you physically feel what it’s like to hold one, without guilt or fear. 

Practical somatic techniques you can use instantly. So the next time someone crosses the line, you know exactly how to respond without freezing or panicking. 

Step-by-step guidance to rebuild self-trust. So you can recognise your patterns, tune into your body’s signals, and stop second-guessing every decision.

A safe space to take up space. So you can practice asserting yourself in a supportive environment where you’ll be seen, heard, and validated too.

PLUS, I’m adding a special bonus:

3 Days of personal email support after your session

Because I don’t want you to leave this session feeling like you’re on your own. 

So for three days after, you can reach out via email if anything comes up—whether you need a little extra support, have questions, or want feedback on a real-life boundary situation.

All of this for just £67!

Let’s be real for a second…

If healing was about knowing what to do, you’d already feel free.

So it’s not your lack of information that’s the problem here…

It’s that you need a new experience.

One where you can feel what it’s like to stand firm, hold your ground, and trust yourself again.

Because the more you let your boundaries slip, it reinforces the message that your needs don't matter.

And the more that pattern gets engrained into your nervous system, the harder it becomes to rewire those patterns. 

So delaying your healing for another day, another week, another month, or even another year, isn’t doing you any favours.

After all...

Someday is a curse that delays your freedom”.

So let today be the start of your freedom and the end of second-guessing your boundaries... 

But here’s the deal…

Right now, I’m offering this session at a special launch price.

And I may increase the price at any time. 

Why? 

Because I know the value of this session. And I’ve spent years studying, testing, and perfecting what works. 

And to be honest, I can only take on a small number of 1:1 clients each month. Because I want to give each of you the attention you deserve. So if you don’t book now, you may have to wait…

(Spots are limited—book now before the price goes up!)

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